Finding Home in a Life Without Borders - A Conversation with Sam Frearson Tubito
What does home really mean when you’ve lived across eight countries before adulthood? How do you create stability in a life defined by movement? In this episode, Mickelle sits down with Sam Frearson Tubito, global nomad, memoirist, and author of Beneath a Borrowed Sky, to explore what it means to belong when home isn’t a single place - but a feeling.
Raised in a whirlwind of international relocations as the daughter of a global banker, Sam grew up shifting between continents, cultures, and languages. From the Caribbean to Africa, Asia, and Europe, her childhood was shaped by constant adaptation. But when it came time to raise her own family, she made a conscious decision: to give her children the gift of stability within the movement, rather than apart from it.
Together, she and Mickelle discuss the complex layers of identity, the unique challenges of raising third-culture kids, and the trade-offs - both seen and unseen - that come with a globally nomadic life. They also explore what it takes to build a deep-rooted sense of home, even when the world is your playground.
In this Episode
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The Third-Culture Kid Legacy - Sam shares her family’s multi-generational history of living across cultures and how that shaped her identity.
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Raising Global Citizens - Why she and her husband chose to raise their children differently from how she was raised, prioritizing togetherness over separation.
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Building Stability in a Moving Life - How intentional parenting, cultural immersion, and family rituals helped create a true sense of belonging.
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The Reality of Expat Motherhood - The quiet sacrifices, shifting career paths, and deep work of constructing a life between worlds.
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Where is Home? - Sam’s powerful insight: Home isn’t a place. It’s a feeling, a connection, a sense of rootedness within yourself.
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The Legacy of Expat Family Life - Now that Sam’s children are adults, how they continue to find connection across continents.
This conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating life between cultures as a family - whether you’re raising third-culture kids, building a globally mobile career, or simply redefining what home means for you.
🎧 Listen now, and let us know-what does home mean to you?
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