What does it really take to find and keep lasting love? In this powerful and soul-nourishing episode, Mickelle is joined by Astrid Niels, certified relationship coach and founder of Happy Thinking, to explore the unseen forces that shape our romantic lives.

Astrid shares her deeply personal origin story - growing up in Belgium with early losses that sparked a lifelong search for belonging and emotional safety. From studying abroad to building a successful coaching practice, her path reveals how heartbreak, ambition, and reflection can lead to profound wisdom.

Together, Astrid and Mickelle dive into the complexities of emotional growth, the unconscious patterns we act from, and why love is less about finding “the one” and more about becoming the version of yourself who can meet love fully.

Whether you're single, partnered, or navigating love across cultures, this conversation is rich with insight, empathy, and empowerment.

fering digital tools, in-person scouting trips, and an empowering support system for others ready to relocate.

Together, Mickelle and Jen explore what it means to leave with intention - not out of fear, but toward alignment. They discuss the importance of nervous system resets, how privilege shapes mobility, and why finding a place that feels like home often comes down to vibe, not visuals. Whether you're curious about expat life or already dreaming of your next chapter abroad, this conversation offers both heart and strategy.

✨ Key Moments:

• Model of the World in Love: How corporate dynamics helped Astrid understand relationship mismatches.
• From Trauma to Transformation: Astrid’s early losses shaped her search for love with depth and meaning.
• The Unseen Saboteurs: Why subconscious beliefs and unspoken “contracts” can derail connection.
• International Couples & Accelerated Growth: How living abroad magnifies emotional dynamics.
• Devotion to Self First: Why reclaiming your power is essential before finding or deepening love.

Astrid coaches clients internationally through Happy Thinking. Connect with her at happythinking.me, on Instagram @happythinking.me, or on LinkedIn (Astrid Niels).

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